The sermon on the mount, recorded in Matthew 5-7, contains some of the most well-known and poorly applied sayings in the Bible. Gems like “judge not,” and “turn the other cheek” are present here, among other favorites. But none can match the fame garnered by Matthew 7:12. The golden rule, as many call it, is often taught to children and recalled by adults who are looking for wisdom. But it is not often applied as Jesus intended.
In Matthew 7:7-8, Jesus promises that our Father in Heaven will give what is good to those who seek it. Good, however, needs to be understood as God defines it: beneficial for your soul. If something is detrimental to your sanctification, do not think God will give it to you. He gives only that which is spiritually beneficial (see James 1:17). Jesus promises if you go to God seeking what is spiritually beneficial, He will surely grant it because He is the best Father to all His children (see Matthew 7:9-11).
Jesus concludes that this promise, this behavior from God, demands change in our relationships with every person. In verse 12 He concludes, “In everything, therefore, treat people the same way you want them to treat you, for this is the Law and the Prophets.” Because your Father gives what is spiritually beneficial to you, you must do what is spiritually beneficial for others. This is the Law and the Prophets.
The goal of the golden rule is not to make everyone happy or to make yourself happy. It’s not even about being nice all the time. Help people get to heaven because that is what your Heavenly Father does for you. If you are thinking wisely, you want everyone to treat you the same way. The golden rule is best summarized this way: help each other get to heaven.
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